IS THERE CARE IN
HEALTH CARE
Judy Bearden RN
I have been a nurse for 10 years, I started out in a hospital setting where I worked
cardiac and lung cancer surgery patients, I am now a home health case manager nurse. I wrote this poem after
going out one day to assist a mother with her 22 year old son who had a traumatic brain injury in a 4-wheeler
accident. He had a trach, feeding tube, foley cath and skin breakdown from being in a long term care facility
for 2 months. The insurance company allowed me three visits to teach the mother how to care for her son. Many
times as I looked at the patient as he lay in the bed the lines blurred between her son and my daughter, as I
looked at him I sometimes saw my child and thought except for the grace of God this could easily be my child.
I wondered how I would react if it were me, what must it feel like when the people whom you put your trust in
tell you your childs life will cost too much to save. And yes I can easily see that it would also be much
cheaper and cost effective to let this young man go, but what if it were my child or yours? Then what would
be the cost?
He cannot be salvaged, rehabbed, or saved
We will turn off the respirator later today
His mother’s heart pauses and shatters
But he’s my child doesn’t that matter
The care in healthcare slips out the door
The respirator slows down and the room is
still
His mother holds her breath and fights for a strong
will
But his chest continues to rise and fall with a normal
rate
He will never be able to move on his own this coma is his
fate
And the care in healthcare slips out the
door
Against all odds she brings him home to
stay
That’s my child is all she will say
Insurance company says he can’t be helped, so we won’t
pay
That’s my child she continues to say
And the care in healthcare slips out the
door
I look in her eyes and I see determination and strength
For her child she’s willing to go to great
lengths
I look at her son and wonder how she will
cope
She has had no training, and no assistance, she only has
hope
As I leave the home I whisper a prayer
Dear God please help to remember always to
care.
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