Relationships among the Elderly:
The Effects on One’s Health and Psychosocial Well Being
by Mary Tencza, RN, BSN
Graduate of Drexel University
ABSTRACT
Advances in medicine are allowing many adults to live longer lives than previous
generations. In fact, the elderly population is becoming one of the largest growing sectors of the present
population. Recently, researchers have begun studying what factors contribute to successful aging. These
studies are showing that the impact of family and social relationships plays an important part in one’s health and
psychosocial well being.
The Pennsylvania Department of Aging (2008) defines an elderly person as one who
is age 65 or older. Those age 85 and above are considered to be the oldest old and are predicted to increase 44% in
number by 2020 (PA Department of Aging). As one reaches these once unfathomable ages researchers are
interested in analyzing their psychosocial and health dispositions as to what these elderly adults ascribe to their
longevity.
Older adults attribute successful aging to quality of life (Reichstadt, Sengupta,
Depp, Palinkas, and Jeste, 2010). Flood, Nies, and Seo (2010) define successful aging as one’s ability to
successfully adapt to their physical and social surroundings. This satisfaction can be all encompassing
contributing to an overall sense of a purposeful life (Flood et al.). Many older adults noted that a “feeling
that somebody cares” played an important role in this sense of well being (Reichstadt et al.). Social
interaction and support with spouses, family and friends can provide one with an acceptance of self and lend to a
decrease in mortality (Antonucci, Birditt, and Webster, 2010).
There are many different types of relationships such as social, marital, and
family. Each of these relationships can have a negative or positive influence on the individual. Trudel, Boyer,
Villeneuve, Anderson, Pilon, and Bounader (2007) note that a positive relationship with a spouse can be one of the
greatest buffers against physical and psychosocial problems. This relationship has the most impact on one’s sense
of purpose and mental disposition (Trudel et al.).
A study by David Sbarra (2009) found that C-reactive protein (CRP) levels in older
married men were lower than in their single counterparts. He attributes this finding to one of the health benefits
a quality marriage can offer (Sbarra). An article in the Harvard Women’s Health Watch (2010) notes that
stress levels are decreased for older couples in strong relationships. The sharing of experiences and
closeness may have a far greater impact on one’s health than previously realized (Gerstorf, Hoppmann, Kadlec, and
McArdle 2009).
Antonucci et al. (2010) find that the negative effects of a marital relationship
may actually improve health while contributing to depression. These negative may be real or perceived as the
older individual can interpret demands made on them as smothering or pressuring (Antonucci et al.). Other negative
effects such as declining physical or cognitive functions of a spouse have been found to increase one’s depressive
symptoms (Gerstorf et al., 2009). It is interesting to note that wives with depressive symptoms were more
likely to have an impact on their spouse’s cognitive decline as well as their own (Gerstorf et al.).
Older adult relationships with children or other family members did not carry the
importance of a spousal relationship unless the person is unmarried (Antonucci et al., 2010). Positive interaction
with family did not show the decrease in mortality that one might expect (Antonucci et al.). It has been suggested
that as one ages their family ties often remain intact as opposed to other relationships since family are thought
to be a greater source of support, care, and emotional well being than a social relationship (Shaw, Krause, Liang,
and Bennett, 2007). Antonucci et al. suggest that families of those nearer to death may choose to hide any troubles
and focus on the positive.
Many elderly report that social involvement contributes to a positive self
attitude and self acceptance (Reichstadt et al., 2010). Shaw et al., (2007) note that social support is
directly linked to decreased mortality and offers positive health benefits. One reason for this may be that social
relationships as opposed to family and marital are chosen by the elderly person (Antonucci et al., 2010). This
allows the individual to surround himself with an effective support system. A study by Shaw et al. (2007) finds
that elderly women are often the ones providing and receiving more support than elderly men. However, the
study also notes that men are happier with their support systems overall (Shaw et al.).
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